Create a life you LOVE…
I love this time of year. September. The air and colours are changing. It feels like a fresh start, new beginnings and full of potential. I have been warmed and nourished by the amazing summer sun but now it’s “back to school”. Suddenly, in my head, there is lots to do. Ooo I need to clean the house out. Sort out my clothes. Start my new work projects. Send lots of emails. See all my friends after a summer away. That doesn’t even include all the stuff I need to get done for the kids!?
Busy busy busy. And yet not very focused. So I find it very helpful to connect with what I love and what I would love to do more. I don’t really want to be constantly orientated around “shoulds” because let’s face it - that is pretty boring. Yes, there are things that we will need to get done. BUT if we want to LOVE our lives, what do we really want? What do we love doing? What would we love more of?
This is a time to go big, not limit ourselves, or get all practical. Just for a wee minute allow ourselves the luxury of creating miracles and daring to dream big “impossible” dreams. Sometimes we may surprise ourselves. What we really want is absolutely not unobtainable. It may actually be pretty simple.
What I have seen so clearly now is that it’s not actually the stuff that creates our good and loving feelings - it is us. We generate the beliefs, thinking and feelings that create our experience. It’s not the fault of what we do or don’t have, other people or our jobs if we are not loving life. If we are feeling bad then that is a sign to look within. What are we lacking?
You see, no one is going to come along and wave a magic wand and create a life we love. I know it sucks a little bit. BUT the good news is that we get to do that for ourselves. We are the creators of our experience and we get to decide how our lives go. Really - no matter what you are facing today or have faced yesterday - there is only one place we can actually love our lives - today. In this exact moment we live the dream - or not.
So I encourage you to get curious about life and your experience. Are you Loving life? If not - what do you imagine could make it more fun? More joyful? More filled with love?
I am creating all sorts of wonderful things at the moment (totally flying by the seat of my pants). But I do have a process that works for me - and has worked for millions of my peers - to create goals and get them done! I want to do this for you and for the young people I work with.
Last week I did have a little idea to gather people together to do 90 days and it is actually taking shape! If you would like to know more there are free options and paid options. See more here… We kick off on the 16th Sept so come join us! It may even be FUN!
